Sunday, September 20, 2015

#yesallwomen



September 20, 2015

I’m starting this ten minutes to midnight so in essence it will be the post for tomorrow. But since the issue spoke to me today I’m flagging it with a September 20th date.

Prostitution. The way it is treated today only protects the pimp and enables him to sexually violate the woman and her basic human rights. The way it is portrayed in the movies it is usually sensationalized. Or even in books or other types of media.

Women in this institution when arrested often beg the arresting officers to get them out of ‘this’. Ask yourself when see a woman plying in this trade, how old is she? Because she looks young. Why would a girl with all the hopes and dreams of any girl in America end up here.
Which brings me to this. Human trafficking.

Women and girls are abducted every day and often fall off the grid because they were labeled as ‘troubled’, ‘runaways’, or somehow less than in society. Don’t get me wrong. These kinds of things often happen to young boys as well. But I’m speaking strictly from a female perspective.

Our culture has the tendency to say these segment of society are the throw aways. The less thans. The ones somehow least deserving of our protection.

There are those who enter this profession willingly. These are not the women I’m talking about. But again in a sense I am.

A writer for the Chicago Sun Times was quoted as saying sex workers can’t be raped. The hell they can’t. They still have the right to refuse service. But his belief isn’t exactly an isolated incident. It speaks to a broad assumption about those working in the sex industry.

I personally know people who have worked in said industry. Not as a prostitute but someone who had an up close and personal relationship with it. She saw others fall prey to its dangers and pitfalls. It’s unfortunate because these people’s lives have as much value as hers, as mine, and as yours.

Those working for a pimp often fell in with him when he was posing as a possible boyfriend. And she was already ‘in love’ when he ‘asked’ or more likely ‘ordered’ her to have sex with one of his ‘friends’. And then took most of the money from the paying customer.

There needs to be an agency that goes after the pimps who do this. Instead of a sting designed to catch women working the streets where they will be arrested, thrown in jail, make bail and be back out plying the oldest profession in the book.

Another agency still that takes the women wanting out of this because they’ve either been a part of human trafficking scheme or just want out and give them protection, counseling, healthcare, vocational rehab. And if they are traumatized by their experiences therapy for what is most likely PTSD or anxiety or any myriad of psychological issues. Disability should made available to them as well.

These women need to cared for. These women need to be heard. These women need to be shown their lives have value just because they are living, breathing human beings. They need to feel safe and protected and know that have basic human rights to a life of whatever it is they please.

Until Next Time

Amy

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